Something to make you smile!

Great song + a cute little girl singing it= one of my favorite songs!

Enjoy!

I want.....

a baby! A cute, cuddly, fun to dress baby. No no, not one of those ones that cries and can't use the bathroom. That's just crazy talk ;)

It's so interesting all the emotions that go along with not wanting a baby (right now) to I NEED A BABY. A couple years ago, I was perfectly fine with where we were at in our life. Now, it completely feels like something is missing. Not all days but more days than not. My husband feels it too. Maybe not as strongly nor on a daily basis but still something he thinks about. Unfortunately, I just don't get knocked up easily. But we'll save that story for another day.

For 99% of the time thus far I have been completely focused on all the amazing wonderful things that come with a baby i.e. who will they look like, the baby smell, the cuddles and love, all the firsts, decorating a nursery. Don't get me wrong, none of these things are negated in my mind but since we've had more time than planned in the "trying phase," I feel like I've actually gained a better realization of how life will change. And it has actually helped me be more patient with this process.

I think of how if we have twins, it's entirely possible we will need 4 car seats because we'll probably split pick-up/drop-up. FOUR! Crazy! I know, very specific but it was the last thing I realized. Day care costs....enough said. Our mid-week wine nights with neighbors.....probably not happening too often. And most importantly, continuing to make time for your marriage and keep making sex tapes. Bahahahaha.  

So this year has been all about doing all the things you can't do with a baby. Okay, well not that you can't but they would be A LOT harder. Pretty much we're boozing it up all weekend and taking adult friendly trips. We're making the best of it ;)

But....today is not one of those days that I'm excited to be where we are at. I want to hold my adorabley cute, blonde hair, baby smelling, mini-me. I'll shake it. I'll probably hear a song that makes me dance and I'll start thinking about our girl trip to Vegas. But for the moment, that longing and desire to be a mommy is on my mind.

Farmer's Market

It was kind of a perfect Sunday today.

We started the morning with a nice run. It was cool and quiet on the running trails today. We didn't push ourselves to hard and so we were able to chat a bit as we went. I don't know what it is about running for us but we often have some great conversations. I think it clears our head. Oh and maybe the rush of endorphins helps too.

We got back and decided to go to our local Farmer's Market. I have wanted to do this FOREVER and for whatever reason we hadn't made it over there. We have the cutest little town center in our city and it's the best place for a market.

We decided to take our dog Ruby. We thought walking around a lot of people would be good practice for our trip at the end of the month to Carmel. We walked around this little lake in the middle thinking we could "calm" her down and then preceded to make it through the market. Well, after the third unsuspecting child got a BIG wet kiss and my husbands arm was about to break off, we decided to divide and conquer. Meaning John would take Ruby away from the crowd while I shopped :)

There was tons of fresh produce, all local growers, and plenty of happy people. I love Farmer's Markets. We ended the outing by munching on some cherries and pluots and just sat and enjoyed the beautiful day :)

Haaaapppy Sunday!

Whine and Wine

Sorry I didn't post all week but I was not feeling too inspired to write. My job has just been kind of "ehhh" lately and it's left me pretty unhappy in the evenings which does not equal any type of interesting posts! I hate that! I really need to turn it around and just make the best of everything. I really do have a pretty great job but just recently we pulled the plug on a really exciting project that I had a big role in. It was going to be a big opportunity for me. I work in product development and it's difficult because often times things are just outside your control. I. don't. like. that. Not that I'm a control freak but I love to be challenged and was just having so much fun with the project. Alright, I feel better. 

Let's play a little catch up. Last weekend we went to our friends house for a bbq. First one of the season and it was wonderful! These are our dearest friends (definitely more like family). John and I joined the group....oh, 7 years ago now and we still feel so lucky. You couldn't ask to be friends with better people.

A few things I've concluded about our parties....

1) There is always wine!
2) It almost always turns into a dance party. I hope the kids remember that about us! It's mostly for them....mostly ;)  BTW- kids dance moves are hillarious these days!
3) The boys almost always have to get a poker game in and if Sean doesn't win soon I think they will be no more. Ha!

My mid-year New Years resolution was to take more pictures (you can do that right?). So the camera is fairly new to us. We might have to set some ground rules going forward. Like rule #1, no gang or peace signs.  I wish I could show one pic of my friend...she's secretly conservative for her hubby but sometimes she lets her little wild side out ;). So you will get the "if my grandma ran accross this blog" pics....or boss!

Thanks for listening, my mood already feels better and I'm ready for a wonderful weekend!

We're going to a friends bday party tonight..Moroccan themed! Should be fun! And tomorrow, hopefully I can bust out some fun projects tomorrow to share with ya'll!

DIY Summer Display

It's time to bring a little summer into our house!

We have a couple of shelves in our family room that I try to change out to go with the different seasons and holidays.

Here's a look at what I did for spring:

You can find the prints over at Jones Design Company :)

For the summer display, I knew that I wanted to kind of go for the nautical look but couldn't quite find what I was looking for. I created both of the prints and I love them!



I had planned on going out to get a few fun accesories but I ended up finding all of these items around my house. Score! I turned the little pot into a "beach pail". Does it look like that? I hope :) Stole the driftwood from our fireplace and the shell from a cabinet. The shell is actually from our honeymoon. We found it on the beach in the Dominican!

Click on either of the images to download the prints!

Some of my favorite things!

Happy Friday everyone!!!! 3-day weekend....bring it on! Thought I'd share some of my absolute favorite "things" right now :)

1. Aviator Ray Ban's

Great sunglasses-goes with so many things!

2. This girl

My seester, so freakin proud of her for getting her cosmetology liscense! She is such an amazing fun girl, very lucky to have such a great sister :)

3. Michael Kors Watch


 An absolute great splurge. I could wear this almost everyday! Something I have no guilt about buying :)

4. Sock Buns

Oh yes, watch out for sock buns! I love them and thought I couldn't wear them because of my thin hair. Well, I figured out how to do it and I'll share a tutorial soon!

5. Carmel by the Sea

My favorite place, hands down. It abolutely has everything I love. Let me just name a few things....beautiful scenery, amazing food, charming family owned restaurants, decadent window shopping, friendly people, pet friendly....I could go on an on!

I'm so excited because we just planned a SURPRISE trip for my mom at the end of June for her birthday. She's going to love it and so SHHHHHH! 

I hope everyone has a fabulous weekend! Feels like the kick-off to summer to me!

DIY Lace trimmed denim shorts (no sew)!

Anyone else have an obsession with lace??? Ummm....I do!!

I've been seeing cute denim cut-off shorts with lace detail all over Pinterest and just had to see if I could work some magic. Here's a super simple step by step tututorial to add a little flair to those jeans!

1. Get Supplies

    -Iron & scissors
   -Fusible web (fabric supply store)
   -Lace (fabric supply store)
   -Cut-off denim shorts

2. Mark jeans and Cut

On each side of the shorts draw a triangle exactly on the seam of the shorts. Cut out the first triangle. Repeat this step on the other side. Make sure to check that the triangle cut-out area is relatively the same size.

3. Line with fusible web and iron on lace

Turn shorts inside out first. Cut strips of fusible web and place two (side by side) on each side of the triangle cut out area. Now, cut your lace to just cover the area. With the iron (on high heat), gently press on the lace to bond the lace and the web to the jeans. Based on the lace you might want to add another layer. I added one more layer slightly shorter than the first layer. Again, lay fusible bonding strips on each side and iron lace to shorts.

4. Ta-da! Lace trimmed summer shorts!

The shorts can go in the wash but I would do this sparingly and opt to handwash. This is no sew and all!

A little tan, cowboy boots and a summer concert will be the perfect combo for these shorts!

Refreshing Sundays

Sunday mornings are good for the mind, body and soul.

In our house, it's usually a quiet, slow morning. We sip our coffee, stay in our pajammas and just gently start our day.

It's also a day where I feel more reflective than others. I think about the past week. The highs and the lows and what this next week will bring.

While I'm not a regular church goer, I'm certainly a Christian and talk to God daily. Sundays for obvious reasons I feel closer to him. There is a sense of peace on these days and I'm filled with a greater joy.

It's been a tradition in our house that on these beautiful mornings, I awake my husband singing "Rise and shine and give God the glory, glory..." I think many of us could finish this song. My mom would sing this to us as kids and now this is apart of my little family.

You could imagine my excitement when one of my favorite bloggers introduced this printable!

 I promptly bought it and I can't wait to one day hang it in our future child's room. Check out all her other printables too! They are very cute and have great messages.

I hope everyone have a wonderful wonderful Sunday and feels renewed for the week ahead!

I Have a Disease

It’s called No Telephone Skills-itus. My case is severe.

I really don't like talking on the phone. This goes back a looooonnng time. I don't even know how it started or why. I just prefer email or text.

But that is just soooo sad I know! For my friends that live in the same town, I think they would all say I am a good friend and they generally know what's going on with me. We're regular emailers/facebookers. We get together frequently and are close.  For those friends that live far away, BLESS YOU for putting up with me.

The funny thing is that I think about all of my friends constantly. I wish I was the person that just picked up the phone to check-in. It's always "this wekeend when I have time" or "well, i only have 20 min. to talk and so I don't want to cut them off." It's like I make excuses for the PERFECT time, which never comes. Others can be feeding/changing a diaper and still talking to me! Not to say I never just call to chit chat but it is certainly not enough. There are many girlfriends I wished I talked to multiple days a week. I know my life would be richer and fuller because every time I get off the phone with them I feel sooo good. There's definitely been some laughs, maybe a heart to heart, and just a general feeling of closeness with someone.

Sooooo what is the cure? I've wondered this for a very. long. time. All I can say is that I am just going to try harder. I'm going to try harder because I want to be as close as possible with all of you. And most importantly, I want all my friends for a lifetime.

In an effort to find a cure for my disease, I actually ran accross something that kind of made me think that maybe I didn't have a disease but I was actually the smart one...no, not really but it made me laugh!

*Disclaimer- Some of this is a little crude, I typically would never put anything in here about mens private parts! ;)

This is from The Oatmeal blog: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/phone

A Perfect Summer Dinner Menu

There's nothing I appreciate more than a perfectly planned out dinner menu. I strive to be that host that pairs together each dish and course perfectly. I have many friends that do this beautifully! And I get to reap the rewards :)

Last weekend we went to our friends house for dinner and we had the best time! The recipe was simple....great people, summer night, cocktails and of course this menu!

It so perfectly blends a quintessential casual summer dinner with a level of sophistication that still makes you feel like you are dining out.

Oh, and probably the best part for me, you can make so much of this ahead!! Since we are having company over on a Friday and having to work, it was so nice that I could prep nearly all of this the night before.

1. Appetizer- Chevre with Pistachios and Honey
Here is the link!

http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/chvre-with-pistachios-honey-10000001873417/

2. Main- Lamb Burgers with Indian Spices and Yogurt-Mint Sauce

Here is the link!

http://www.myrecipes.com/recipe/lamb-burgers-with-indian-spices-yogurt-mint-sauce-10000001995708/

3. Sides

Melon Salad-easy peasy!

 1 cantaloupe (or can use watermelon if you prefer)

 3/4 container feta cheese

 2-3 T chopped fresh mint

 few turns of pepper grinder

Bean salad

 fresh green beans steamed

 2 cobs of corn steamed

 1 can low salt garbanzo beans

 1 can low salt kidney beans

 2 tomatoes chopped

 dressing:

 1/4 cup lemon juice

 1/4 cup olive oil
 1/2 teaspoon garam masala (Indian spice mix you can find in the spice aisle)

 1/2 teaspoon salt

 1 T goat cheese (add if you want, I think it added a bit of creaminess)
 If you need more spice or salt, add it!

4. Dessert

 Vanilla Ice Cream- Rich and creamy!

 Caramel (lavendar if you can find some)

 Candied Pecans (buy or make yourself!)

 Cinnamon Phyllo Crumbles (sprinkle cinnamon on phyllo dough, bake for 15min. or so and crumble)

There you have it; an absolutely delicious meal that will be a crowd pleaser!

YAY that summer is almost here!!!